This is something I have been wondering for a long time, all the way back to my education two years ago, where we talked about it. Constantly I get reminded about it. 

I feel that my family is not valid as a family. My family consist of me and my three loved one, we are scattered all over Sweden. I guess it is not a family when you are not living together or for that matter when you are more than two in the relationships. This makes me so sad and I feel so left outside of it. 

For me family have never had a strong bond in the traditional sense. I feel that people who say they want me to be and feel good don't include how I am supposed to feel good.